Saturday, August 22, 2009 Y
Some surprises are good, some are bad, some leave you happy, some leave you mad. THIS surprise was REALLY a surprise... And I don't mean the good kind, or the happy kind. -.-So... usual Saturday, woke up, did some tuition prep work, then shower and go out. And saw my distant relative visiting from China. Hello there. So far so good, nothing surprising yet. The surprise came in the evening, when i heard from my Mom that this distant relative is staying in our house for a day. Not too bad, I can handle a day, and he's m distant relative.BIG MISTAKE!Either my Mom told me the wrong info, or I heard it wrongly... But I'm pretty sure it's the first one, cos something so surpising, I wouldn't have heard it and just leave it be... It wasn't a day, it was a week! I'm not mad at this relative that's staying at my house, I'm mad at the people who actually PUT him in my house. WITHOUT NOTICE! NONE of us knew it coming, I seriously can't believe it! And haha, it's WAAAAYYYY AWESOME.... The people who puts this distant relative at our house with no prior notice was actually also our relatives, in Singapore. -.-lllHow freaking hard is it to pick up the phone a few days before and tell us that this distant relative is visitng and will be staying at our house for a week? It doesnt even take 5 minutes to dial 8 digits and say a few lines!!!!!!!!!!!! INFURIATING!I CAN'T BELIEVE THERE ARE PEOPLE OUT THERE, YOUR OWN RELATIVES WHO TREAT YOU LIKE TRASH AND TREAT YOUR HOME LIKE A 24/7 MOTEL WHERE THEY CAN JUST 'THROW' WHOEVER WITH YOU FOR A FULL WEEK WITHOUT PRIOR NOTICE!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!!? TOTAL CRAP AND BS!
I would graciously welcome it if we knew. Heck, don't say a week, a month and I wouldn't be so mad. My Grams didn't know, My Dad didn't know, My Mom didn't know =.=lll Still, nothing I could do, he's still here. I don't mind actually, since he came before abt 10years ago. I just HATE the fact that THOSE PEOPLE actually just dumped him here with us for a whole week, without telling!!!That was the worst part... the no telling part. Surprises have different levels, some surprises like a surprise gift, or a surprise visit from a friend or a lover, that's absolutely fine. But a surprise that involves having someone over at your house without you knowing? It's a form of invasion of privacy. Who did THOSE PEOPLE think we are? Motel? Hotel? Bed-and-breakfast? >;[Seriously I can't take people who does not even respect my family! SHEESH!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Respect is the MOST important moral ANYONE should have it in them. And to think that someone who doesn't respect you as an individual and who does not respect your family, how you want us to treat them with respect still? It's a 2-way thing.
Y The Lady @
8:26 PM
